The 3 In Me

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So you found out you’re a Type 3. Now what?

Did you feel like you were punched in the stomach when you realized you were a Type 3?

I know I did.

Not because there aren’t amazing things about being a Type 3, but because it made me aware of many parts of myself that were hard to face. …


Cheers to awareness, growth and avoiding burnout!

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Since you clicked on this article, I’m going to make a couple of assumptions.

  1. You’re an Enneagram 3
  2. You’ve experienced a burnout feeling or are currently in a place of burnout at work because you are letting your achievements get in the way of your physical, emotional and mental health.


How Enneagram Type 3s can transition from surviving to thriving.

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As my friend Paul Young says,

“Being myself is the easiest thing I’ve ever done. But the road getting here was bumpy and windy.”

The transition from surviving to thriving as an Enneagram Type 3 will be bumpy and windy. …


How the wounded masculine rules the inner system of many Enneagram Type 3s and what to do about it.

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Us Enneagram Type 3s have survived by exiling the parts of ourselves society doesn’t consider admirable, and bolstering the parts of ourselves that society does deem admirable.

Unfortunately for us, our society is run by the patriarchal wounded masculine. …


If it’s no longer about achieving in order to prove our worth, then what is the use of having goals?

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I was an all-star employee at my engineering job. But after only four years, I quit my job to pursue writing and coaching. I thought I would be an all-star at running my own business, too.

Nope. (Not in the same way, at least).

I was surprised to see myself…


Remember who you are. Embody your worth.

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Every person’s life is a conversation between the Divine and Humanity. We participate in our unique conversation with the choices we make, what we choose to believe, how we relate to others, and the strategies we use to get our needs met.

How we hold the conversation of our life…

The 3 In Me

Resources for Enneagram Type 3s to reclaim their true identity and embody their worthiness.

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