HE SAYS… Do threesomes end relationships or enhance them?

You, me and she?

I have personal experience with threesomes. I’ve been invited to a threesome as a third, I’ve initiated a threesome and I’ve been one of two looking for a third. And for me, threesome are fun; a little overrated, but fun none-the-less.

That is, until feelings get involved.

Even without feelings, if the three of you are not in sync, then someone is bound to feel left out. Now, I have personally felt left out in a threesome as well. I’ve also vibe-d more with one person in a threesome leaving another out. I have never had a threesome with someone that I was in a relationship with. But I have had one with someone I wanted to be in a relationship with. That was a big mistake for me. I found myself suddenly aware of everything that was going on. I was watching the two of them more instead of interacting. I caught myself trying to memorize moans to try and determine if it was the same moan I heard when it was just us. Was she enjoying it more?

It was just a mess. I still think about it from time to time. It was my last threesome and to be honest I personally don’t miss them.

They are so, overrated.

I believe people give threesomes too much power. Just like sex toys… this is a to each his or her own type of thing.

Couples view monogamy differently. Some couples are swingers. Some couples get off on watching their partners with other people. But I have also heard of men who have problems functioning in a loving relationship with a woman once they have enjoyed seeing other men have sex with her.

It’s all about what you and your partner want and will do for or with one another.

I had a girlfriend that wanted to see me having sex with another woman. Though she didn’t want to try it again, she did admit that it was hot to her. She said she liked it, but, she didn’t want me having sex with no one else after that one time.

But what if your partner doesn’t want to stop when you do?

What if the third party wants to take your place?

There is a lot of risk involved when you invite a third person into your relationship. Think about that before you rush into the sheets.

Now, I will not discourage anyone from trying a threesome, but their are risks. If you are a jealous person-like myself-you might not want to try a threesome. I feel it all boils down to one thing, whether you are OK with your partner to sleeping with someone else.

I don’t know about you, but I wouldn’t be okay with my woman sleeping with another woman, yet alone another man.

No thanks.

I don’t feel like I would be missing anything if I never had another threesome again. But I wouldn’t trade the experience. I feel a threesome, with two random people is something to try. But, if your in a relationship, be secure in it. Before you think of conquering another body, make sure you master the one you have.