10 Lessons I Learned by Going on 10 Dates
When breadth of experience becomes necessary to get depth.
10 dates with 10 new people.
What originally began as a way to meet new people and exchange stories through drinks turned into a litmus test of sorts.
After getting out of a serious relationship that lasted 4 years, dating was the last thing on my mind.
After all, I was in a gray area.
I wasn’t ready to emotionally invest in anyone nor take part in meaningless flings either.
Yet after doing some solo traveling for the first time, I channeled a new side of myself.
I became the woman I always wanted to be: outgoing and confident.
I was able to draw people in through the energy I put out and speak my truth in ways that positively impacted people.
I didn’t recognize who I was becoming, but I absolutely loved it.
I wanted to preserve the momentum and not close myself off entirely by retreating back into my shell.
Which is why I took the advice of relationship coach Tessa Rima and put myself in “circulation mode”.
In other words: dating for fun, without an expected outcome.