Don’t Complain About Being Single, Embrace It Instead
Being single is actually pretty awesome
I used to think of my singleness as a minus, rather than a plus.
I would complain to my mother about how tired I was of waiting for someone. I would daydream about my meet cute (the staple moment in romantic comedies when two characters meet for the first time). I would think about my situation and how much I wished it would change.
But nothing changed…and why would it? I was wasting so much of my energy and time dwelling on what I thought was a less than ideal situation. I only ended up making myself more miserable by thinking about it.
How My Mindset Changed
After a few years though, my dissatisfaction gradually faded. As I grew older, I became more interested in my studies. As I neared the end of university, all of my focus centered around what I would do after graduation. To narrow down the broad focus of my degree, I enrolled in a post-graduate college program after university.
My studies became my passion and I cared less about my relationship status. I had something in my…
