How an Eclectic Personality is an Insight into the Inner Child Wounds
Have you been wondering and replaying in your mind what the eclectic-bourgeois or grandiose behavior of someone says about them? You might have been looking at it from the wrong perspective.
Often we interpret the behavior of others through our own subjective filters which is wrong. And the glam, influencer style personality is one of the most misinterpreted of all. We’ve built up walls to protect ourselves from the world and to hide our trauma and wounds but we do it very differently from one another. Some built the anger wall and become passive-aggressive and narcissistic but others are just fragile and delicate and hide under a pile of lace and velvet.
The lace and velvet paradox and hidden messages
For some years I’ve been watching a very famous influencer in my home country. She is presenting herself as a modern countess. I absolutely love her extravagance and pedantic elegance. Ana is actually a girl with a pretty different life story than mine, but I feel we’re a lot more similar than different.
She grew up in a house where her mother would not wear any fancy jewelry or opulent clothing…
