My Wife Was Dying, and We Didn’t Tell Our Children

The choice was unusual, but loving: We wanted them to live without the shadow of their mother’s mortality hanging over them

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By Jon Mehlman

We decided not to tell the kids. Marla knew that once our three daughters understood that their mother had been given 1,000 days to…

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