The Bored Sex

Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity — despite having been taught that they were designed for it

The Atlantic
Feb 14 · 6 min read
The “distracted boyfriend” meme gets reversed. Photo: AntonioGuillem/Getty Images

By Wednesday Martin

Andrew Gotzis, a Manhattan psychiatrist with an extensive psychotherapy practice, has been treating a straight couple, whom we’ll call Jane and John, for several years. They have…

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