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Why I Don’t Miss My Drama Queen

This too shall pass is a succinct reminder

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2 min readJun 18, 2025

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I recently came across an old letter from a friend dated in the mid-90s and sent to me when I was living in Hong Kong. Rereading this thirty years on, I was struck by my friend’s earnest endeavours to help and comfort me. She used the phrase this too shall pass twice.

I smiled as I struggled to remember the incident she referred to. Although it must’ve seemed so important to me that I wrote to my friend thousands of miles away — today I can’t remember it at all.

It served as a great reminder of a question worth asking before getting overexcited by situations or circumstances — will this matter in five years? 10 years? Or even tomorrow?

Maybe it’s a sign of my mature age, but these days I get bent out of shape by happenings around me much less than my younger days. I’m more easily able to sit with a problem, work it out — or just let it go if it’s not in my control.

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The Bad Influence
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We’re a Bad Influence because we INCITE change through inclusion, thought and creativity. We imagine a world where people can think critically, express themselves, and thumb their nose at the status quo, together.

Marla Bishop
Marla Bishop

Written by Marla Bishop

Londoner, philosophy graduate, journalist, relationship coach, wife & mother. MA in Novel Writing; working on 1st novel. Follow me: https://linktr.ee/Marla

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