The birth of my husband (Part 15) Thanksgiving.
And the birth of my kids back with me again.
I saw a couple one of them with dementia at a young age, also a couple with one of them with Alzheimer’s at a young age.
I realized when it is your child it easier, when you are mature, the strong one, and the child has a disease. Easier than when an elderly, or someone your own age is ill because they can get out of hand, you are not their parent.
The love seems to bond them, the way elderly with Alzheimer’s, dementia, or any other disease are bonded.
Still, a young person can find this hard, the way most teens can be very good parents, and they are competent parents, but they also are still teenagers. Their childhood and teenage life they give up almost completely.
A new elderly, or a bit too young with elderly diseases can find it tough to not have the dreams that were planned anymore. There can be grief at the same time for a young person with too much change.
High school love, married young, kids young, and being young grandparents, then very young dementia, before 50, seems to get through these things. So, a teen might be one of these doing all young. The luck of being young, and have it all, where the elderly disease does take dreams away, but there is another half of a life of happiness to think back on. Still, they respond young to the elderly disease, finding it horrible to give up a future they planned.
Loving the one, maturely having a one, and taking care of that one.
It is not mature at all, to just be with someone and help that someone survive, while you neglect your true heart, thus the person you truly should be with and do all these things you do for. You are built to keep that other one alive, and someone else is built to make this person alive you help right now. Also, some criminals just seek some perfect person helping them, why would you help crime, instead of your one? Lots of crime takes time to find out, it is why many get divorced.
When your own one went down with criminals, it is a tough task that one gives you, to how far should you go and “safe” your one? On the other hand, if you get the correct input, you will not be a criminal. Thus if you now can be the best input to your one, there will be less crime.
Growing up might be the perfect input for your one. The world benefits from this too, as you will help everyone with that, eventually.
We need to think of what we did for our kids.
Why did we put them in systems, making them unnatural? While they are made for someone else, not us. We have the chance to be the best we can, so they grow up the best they can, and thus will be the best they can for their ones and kids, our grandkids.
If we decide you'll die old, with such a system, God might have another idea. Your child will die in that system, before one sees their true life, missing the love of their life because they were kept somewhere else than their one would be, being distracted. Such a system can ruin the total nature of a being. While their hearts would have led them, to them. Nature has its own ways.
You need a curriculum to do the job best, this can be found naturally if one understands the sciences seek for the nature in things. Doing science should lead you to your truth, and your true life, thus also, to your true heart and true one.
This story science will bring you, your truth-seeking will bring you, always fits in a total story of all knowledge.
All, we choose to study is like skipping another study, in the end.
We do not have a Ph.D. in all subjects, we might, should, but we are limiting ourselves with our personal studies. We do need the most knowledge, the best knowledge fitting our lives.
Higher literacy is something like a talent, a talent can be doing their nature, and end up best when it just follows their own nature inside of them. A higher literate can now also do the same job, after studying it professionally. People love talents because they are naturally the best in something, people love studied best because they have the science-based prove of what is best. Together, they are the best world. One told the other was is so good about them, and one showing the other how things are done best naturally. Together, they create a science best, both seeking nature in things.
If all fields are like this and find ways to work together, we know all humans can know.
So, why did we do this to our kids?
Who forced us into that worse way of being? That untruthful way of being? Leading us away from our true nature, talents, and away from the best in life?
We need to choose the best, so all clouds disappear in life, but also, that we can remain thankful.
Seeing those people with early dementia, I know all I do is for my one, if someone else takes me, he has no one, not truly. His lifeless worth and the stranger helped. I also know all those changes we will go through as elderly, also when that comes young, will be tough the way it was tough to see through all people and find the one. We could be on the path by others, but eventually, our one is in our hearts. So, this elderly life can come too early, still, in nature, this is what we are meant for, to help the other one, when our parents are too old, or gone. To have someone, and it is not that bad to take care of someone that is truly yours.
The way we take care of kids. We can, no matter when that comes, and together we keep each other good, and best for ourselves and our kids. That is no one else's job, but the one.
I am grateful for knowing this truth, this thanksgiving. God has his plan, and I must save a lot of my energy for my own kids and my own one, so they all get all I can give, when their times come they need it.
