Mr. Bennet from “Pride and Prejudice” Is a Terrible Dad

Amiable film portrayals notwithstanding (RIP Donald Sutherland!), the book character is not meant to be emulated.

Amy Colleen
The Book Cafe

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Image via Focus Features

Happy Father’s Day, a week late! Let’s talk about how Mr. Bennet of Pride and Prejudice is not a role model for parental figures. Or any figures, even those shown to best advantage during a turn about the room at Netherfield.

Yes, that cover image is a picture of Donald Sutherland as Mr. Bennet in the 2005 adaptation of Pride and Prejudice (P&P). It is no secret that I do not care for this film. I have nothing against Donald Sutherland as an actor — indeed, the same may be said for most of the talented cast — but the character he portrayed (and portrayed well!) was not the Mr. Bennet of the book. And in the wake of Donald Sutherland’s passing, my admittedly Austen-biased social media feeds have exploded with fond tributes to his portrayal of Mr. Bennet.

Except, unfortunately , Mr. Bennet sucks. Here’s why, in no particular order.

He is selfish and indolent, more interested in his man cave than his daughters.

Mr. Bennet can usually be found in his library — “not to be disturbed” as he says in the 1995…

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