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James Calvin
Jul 30

Always Get the Big Bed

We had a big weekend planned, dancing for hours on the day before my flight back to the US from Vietnam, but before…

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James Calvin
Jul 27

Three Hour Tour

“Next trip I’m taking you to a sauna.” “OK older brother, I’ll follow you.” and with that me and my little bro had a date set for…

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James Calvin
Jul 19

Attached

It was the middle of a work trip that included fun, because I rarely take a work trip without fun, and I was reconnecting with a guy I’d not…

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James Calvin
Jun 20

Back to the Basement

I can never enter this space without hearing the words of my best friend who used to live close by, “If there is a fire…

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James Calvin
Jun 16

Reunion

Never remove a hot man from your contacts if there is a chance he’ll be back. “Hi.” came from my man in Queens who had spent much of the…

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James Calvin
May 15

Sprung

I’d been hoping for Funch but was rewarded with a late breakfast fuck with a handsome friend, a not infrequent playmate who lives near to one of…

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James Calvin
Apr 16

Pastoral

“Why helLO unpronounceable!” and the white dog with the Turkish name that only his owner can pronounce jumped up on me as I was untying my…

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James Calvin
Apr 16

Bang

A or B? It’s a good thing that I still had the texts to tell me which one, because both of the doors had queer stickers on them so the people I was…

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James Calvin
Mar 19

Standing Room

A guy I played with after the first year of the pandemic had spoken glowingly of this room, at the back of a porno store, in an…

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James Calvin
Feb 23

Focus

Texting, or even sexting, is no substitute for the real thing but it’s a good way to keep the connection until you meet again. At least this time…

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