How 50–50 Equalized Your Family, Influencing Your Philosophical Outlook on Life

Ilexa Yardley
The Circular Theory
2 min readAug 4, 2017

Father and mother. Sister and brother. Naughty and nice.

Family dynamics 50–50. (Photo by Adam Sherez)

Father and mother, sister and brother. Parent and child. Siblings. This is the make-up of a family. All families are the same, even as, they are different. Explaining differentiation, and, integration, universally. X and Y.

X and Y is X and X. Giving us X and X’.

Therefore, there is a circular relationship between any X and X (X and X’), also, known as zero and one (circumference and diameter) (literal and figurative). Any pair of characters articulates, and, thus, conserves a circle.

So, father and mother, teach, sister and brother. Sister and brother, teach, father and mother. Father and mother, teach, each other. Same for sister, and, same for brother. Members of a family act out all the roles, sister, brother, father, mother. Family roles are the same, in order to be, different. It all boils down to: half naughty, half nice. Everybody.

Family behavior teaches us what to expect, and how to deal with what we expect. This follows us through life. Explains, and predicts, our behavior, in any group. There is a circular relationship, always, between individual, and group. Meaning, life is half-naughty. Half-nice. Half-the-time we like groups. Half-the-time, not-so-much. Half-the-time we’re naughty. Half-the-time we’re nice. Half-the-time we’re OK with other people’s behavior, half-the-time, not-so-much.

This is why we need philosophy to prosper. Meaning, we get along, all of us, half-the-time. At most. At least. Naughty. Nice. Aware. Or, not. Therefore, we have, already, forgiven each other, and, we have, already, been forgiven, because, we know, going in, what to expect. We understand everything. We need to change nothing. Life goes on. 50–50. So, just enjoy it. As you go along. Expect the 50–50. The rest takes care of itself.

Everybody gets this. Because. Everybody lives this.

Conservation of the circle is the core dynamic in nature.

https://www.amazon.com/Circle-Fifths-Guide-Circular-Theory/dp/1548561045/

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