Sex and Death: The Basis for Reality

Ilexa Yardley
The Circular Theory
4 min readOct 12, 2017

What do Weinstein, Paddock, and, the Napa Valley fire teach us?

Hydrogen when burned produces water.

Reality is circular. What comes around goes around. Meaning, what goes around comes around. Zero and one are circumference and diameter (female and male) of an uber-simple circle. Hydrogen, when burned, produces water.

This is what ancient people tried to teach us. Yin and yang (ancient) is zero and one (modern) meaning, the more things change, the more they stay the same. In technological terms, if zero, then one, meaning if one, then zero.

Yin and yang articulate a circle. Something all of us understand, because all of us are entangled by this uber-simple circle (know it or not, like it or not). Between (and around) any X and Y (zero and one) there is an unavoidable 50–50 circle, a diameter and circumference between you and anything that is (observationally) not-you. Complementarity is the basis for identity.

50–50 No Matter What

Meaning, we can’t get away from the circle. 50–50 is the constant. And 50–50 is the norm.

It looks like this:

X and Y is zero and one. A 50–50 circle.

So this produces the antagonist and the protagonist (every person). In a human family, father and mother, sister and brother. The good guy-bad guy within (every individual).

Natural Conflict (Good and Bad Behavior)

It also produces arguments (father and mother) (sister and brother) because X identifies with Y in order to protect X. Zero identifies with one in order to protect one. Where zero and one are one and zero (circumference cannot exist without diameter).

This explains separation anxiety (and the hero complex). Meaning, an infant cannot survive without a mother. Therefore, a father causes existential problems (as does the mother). And this, then, is reverberated throughout nature, explaining all of the good, and bad, in everything (yin and yang) (zero and one).

Therefore, if you go yin, I am going yang. And this is universal. Meaning you can generalize it to explain any situation.

An Infinite Cycle

A California fire destroys everything to begin again. A Hollywood mogul destroys his life so he (and all his victims) can start again. The son of a sociopath destroys his life (and the lives of many victims) so he (and they) can start again. Nature uses all of us to teach about a circle.

This is Einsteinian relativity in physics, showing up in psychology (and vice versa). Life and death (survival and reproduction)conserve an uber-basic circle (yin and yang) (zero and one). Meaning, as we all know, everything is relative, and everything re-cycles (itself, other selves) so that nature can survive.

So, we all feel sorry for the victims. And half of us feel sorry for the victimizers. Realizing the victim and the victimizer (are, on some level, the same) conserve an Einsteinian circle (universal relativity).

Psychological Battles Victims and Victimizers

This is the sister brother battling it out, repeating the psychological battles of the parents. Where sister will see the father as the victimizer, and brother will see the mother as the victimizer, where the first born will take the side of the mother, and the second born will take the side of the father, and-or vice versa, in order, over a lifetime, they can figure out, the conservation of a circle (father and mother were both victim and victimizer).

Brother and sister (brother and brother) (sister and sister) (first and second born) must separate from mother and father, and, also, each other, in order to survive (realize they must play the role of victim, and, also, victimizer, in order to survive).

And, this is true for all of us, in one way or another. Whether we realize it or not. Whether we want to admit it or not. In reality (from the circle’s point of view) there is no victim or victimizer. Just an uber-simple circle in the background watching all of us trying to work things out (figure things out) in the foreground.

This explains why ancient religions all taught, in one way or another, there is no life or death, just victims (victimizers) in a circle. Where nature has to play the role of victim, and victimizer, in order to survive. Where we need forgiveness (self, others) if we want to move forward (understand reality). We can see this everywhere (politics, economics, technology, biology).

Cyclical Relativity and Epistemology

Once the forest fire starts, it’s too late to stop it. It has its own destiny. It takes many victims. So everything can start again. Sex and death. The end, and the beginning, conserve a 50–50 circle (and this can never end). Nature survives by reproducing itself (so, we must do the same). Everything’s a metaphor for a plain and simple circle (all disciplines, systems).

I am not telling you anything you don’t already know. That would not be possible.

Conservation of the circle is the core dynamic in nature.

https://www.amazon.com/Circular-Theory-Ilexa-Yardley-ebook/dp/B0046ZS1KQ

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