Taking Care of Yourself First
There is a circular relationship between selfish and selfless.
There is a circular relationship between selfish and selfless. Which means we are all disappointed, with everything, half-the-time. So, half-the-time can be all the time, either direction, meaning you have full control (of your self).
Others, also, have full control of themselves, and this takes us to competition and cooperation and the 50–50 circular relationship (between them) (competition and cooperation) (all people). Meaning, you cannot get ahead by thinking you can get ahead (everyone is thinking the same thing). You are already ‘ahead.’
So, forgive yourself for everything, and this means, you have forgiven everyone else for everything, and just do your own thing. Have fun. Let go and accept whatever comes your way. You are, always, going to, take care of yourself, first (others, too) and now you totally get this. Nature has your back (conservation of the circle is the core dynamic in nature).