The Behavioral Psychology of the Perfect Sexual Partner: Mirror Me

Ilexa Yardley
The Circular Theory
2 min readAug 11, 2017

All about you is all about me.

Mirror me. (Photo by Scott Webb)

All about you is all about me. There is a circular relationship, 50–50, between you, and, me. So, both of us want the same thing: mirror me.

That’s all there is to sex, really. Mirror me. I’ll mirror you. Chances are, if you are young, though, you may not ‘get’ this.

Meaning, the ‘first love,’ was the perfect, if not, the only, mirror, you will ever have. All the rest is repetition. Redundant. Sequence (redundant repetition). All the rest is mirroring. More mirroring. Thinking back to the first mirror.

So, you have to understand mirroring, if you want to understand sex, how you behave, when it comes to sex, what your partner is thinking, when it comes to sex. Remember, first, sex scares you. You think, perhaps, or, you hope, perhaps, sex does not scare your partner. This is basic mirroring.

Meaning you are hoping to pick up knowledge, and, also, wisdom, from your partner. In addition, of course, to the sex. This means, you are having sex, with everyone, and everything, all-of-the-time. To pick up knowledge. And, wisdom. About your self, of course. And, also, others (50–50). Your partner is hoping to pick up knowledge, and, also, wisdom, from you.

It means, you are constantly mirroring. In order to get yourself, through, life. In order to get yourself, through, time. In order to perform, eventually, nature’s basic function. Mirroring itself through time.

Conservation of the circle is the core dynamic in nature.

https://www.amazon.com/Circular-Reality-Relationship-Artificial-Intelligence/dp/1548370509/

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