The Subtle Art of Communication

Ilexa Yardley
Aug 24, 2017 · 2 min read

Eliminate the bad habit called ‘not.’

Not and not-not. (Photo by Verne Ho)

If you use the word ‘not,’ you are communicating you are ‘not.’ Therefore, if you want to use communication to your advantage, eliminate the bad habit called ‘not.’ Not, and, not-not, prove, a circular relationship is responsible for, communication, in general.

If you say ‘not-not,’ you won’t get anywhere. Except, yes, you become ‘interesting,’ as soon as you say it. It makes people think, and, we all know, half-of-us, love to, ‘think.’

The other half not-so-much. Not, and not-not. Yes and no.

So, as you observe behavior, control behavior by saying, whatever it is, you would like to see as, ‘behavior.’ This would not include not-not. It would include ‘what I know about you, is…’ whatever it is you would like to know about ‘you.’’

Complementarity is the basis for identity. This means is, and is-not, conserve a circle. Thus, is, and, is-not, are, always, 50–50. They occupy an ever-present circle.

Thus, every one is one-half of everything one-half of the time.

So, the subtle art of communication involves, and includes, advanced thinking. Thinking in advance of what you’d like to ‘see.’ Say you have seen it (in any behavior) and you will always be ‘right,’ because right, and, wrong, true, and, false, is, and, is-not, conserve, a similar (the same), circle.

So, if I say, ‘you’re right,’ I am right, and, so, are, you, half-the-time. Underneath it all, half-the-time is, necessarily, all the time. You get this. It’s the subtle art called ‘communication.’

Conservation of the circle is the core dynamic in nature.

https://www.amazon.com/Circular-Theory-Ilexa-Yardley-ebook/dp/B0046ZS1KQ

The Circular Theory

Conservation of the circle is the core dynamic in Nature.

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Ilexa Yardley

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The Circular Theory

Conservation of the circle is the core dynamic in Nature.

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