What Happens If You Marry, To Find Out You Don’t Want to Be Married
It’s going to happen. Like it or not. Know it or not.

Marriage is 50–50. Like it or not. Know it or not. That’s what you sign on for when you agree to marry. In fact, you make a vow. Which only half-of-us keep.
This explains why divorce happens. Or doesn’t.
You control half-of-what happens. Nature controls the other half. Where nature and you are in a 50–50 circle. Know it or not. Like it or not.
Therefore, check out your grandparents. Their relationship, and how they handled their relationship. Whether they divorced, or not, tells you about the circularity in nature, and, also, what is ‘normal’ to you, how you handle reality, and, how you are going to handle reality, as it surfaces.
So, that’s why, you have to open your eyes one thousand times before you marry, and close your eyes one thousand times after you marry. Someone probably told you this. You may have forgotten to listen.
And, then you married. Or, then you marry.
You already know all of this. I don’t have to bring it up. I am just reminding you.
Your choices depend on your goals. Which you may not know. Which you cannot share.
Your goals will become obvious over time. Survival. Reproduction. Survival and reproduction in an uber-basic circle. Your circular relationship to nature. Your circular relationship to your goals. Your circular relationship to your self. Your circular relationship to, and your ideas about, partnership and marriage.

