What You’re Signing Up For

Ilexa Yardley
The Circular Theory
2 min readOct 15, 2018

Any relationship. Exactly 50–50. Like it or not. Know it or not.

Relationships are easy to explain. They look like this. Always (exactly) 50–50.

50–50.

Except, we may not ‘experience’ relationships as ‘50–50.’ This is because we’re taught, in school, a ‘basic’ mathematics. Where zero and one is one and two.

Zero and one. One and two.

This is, obviously, confusing. Explaining, why, and how, confusion surfaces in all (explains) relationships. Meaning, we only see ‘half the picture’ at all times. And, we’re only ‘showing’ half the picture (at all times).

Observer and observation. Half and half.

So, this is what we’re signing up for. With any, and-or, every ‘relationship.’

Where half-of-me likes you (at all times) and the other half, not-so-much (not-at-all). And, always, vice versa.

Half of me. Likes you. Half of you. Likes me.

So, there it is. Explaining why women watch ‘investigation discovery’ ‘tru-TV.’ We all know we are going to ‘turn’ (get ‘turned on’) eventually.

Conservation of the circle is the core dynamic in Nature. Half of you, nice. The other half. Not-so-much (not at all). 50–50 is a ‘bitch.’ Also called: reality.

https://www.amazon.com/Dominatrix-Ilexa-Yardley/dp/1484011481

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