Why all ‘Relationships’ Eventually Fall Apart (Burn Out) (Go South) (Explode)
We cannot, actually, communicate with each other, despite how we are ‘programmed’ (by Nature) to ‘think’ otherwise.
Nature is an even 50–50. We all ‘know’ this. Even as we, often, choose, to, forget.
In order to ‘survive,’ Nature programs us (Nature programs everything in Nature) to ‘see what can never be seen.’ Another way of saying this is: we all engage in Magical Thinking, at the beginning, during, and at the end, of any (and every) relationship.
Magical thinking means we fall in love with an idea in our own head, which is based on past experience, good and-or bad. We’re hopeful, or we’re skeptical, always, about a relationship outcome.
Thus, we bounce back and forth between magically thinking ‘awesome’ and magically thinking ‘horrible’ at all times during all relationships. That’s what the diagram above proves.
Therefore, eventually, after enough of this, we all detach in one way or another. Some take detachment to the limit, with homicide and-or suicide. Others isolate for safety. And, still, others, play pretend (or give a false view) in order to stay away from conflict.
However, Nature shows us, over and over, it’s impossible to avoid conflict. (That’s in the diagram above, too.)
So, how to deal with this?
Well, guide your expectations to (a full acceptance that) 50–50 is the constant and the norm.
That is, assume that everyone is going up and down and all around because 50–50 is the constant and the norm and hone your skills at ‘ignoring’ at least half of the stuff that’s going on around you.
This may mean, for some (for half, actually) avoiding relationships altogether. You can actually live a very productive and happy life on your own. Although it’s tough to see this when Nature is busy generating sex hormones (especially in your teens and twenties) (for women, especially in your thirties and forties). Nature is designed to replicate (duplicate) (keep the 50–50 going). So, you always have to be extra careful when it comes to sex.
Once you have accepted everything in this article, you're on your own, but you will not be able to deny that ‘communication’ is not going to get you would you’d like to get (magically) in any relationship.
Not to worry:
Conservation of the Circle has you covered. Try 64-Dates to experiment (and prove this) for yourself, now that you know you have to ‘do the numbers’ to find someone who, like you, understands, and buys into this article.
The Circular Theory website (most up to date info) here…
Intelligent Design Center info (for investors) here…
About Ilexa Yardley (logic behind The Circular Theory and The Quantum Circuit) here…
