Why don’t some people care? And Is it okay?
A few questions, will they trigger your emotions?
These are views that I have heard or assumed by the person’s actions.
I don’t care and I’m not getting involved because,
They won’t like it.
They made their bed and they can lay in it.
They never helped me.
They won’t learn.
They are strong and they will be okay.
They are stupid and they will just do it again.
They always sort themself out.
They’re not worth it.
They have other people who can do it.
They will just argue with me.
They are lying about it.
They’re not worth it.
They have Julie, she’s a mug.
They won’t thank me.
They’re not nice people.
They have a big house and they are on the street to con you.
They make me feel helpless.
They’re not worth it.
They look rough.
They scare me.
They might want more than I can give.
They may want it all the time.
They may feel insulted by my help.
They may drink the money.
People will think I’m soft.
People will think I’m wasting my money.
People will think I’m stupid.
Caring is a natural thing, some of us are more drawn to care than others.
Some have been trapped by their compassion.
Some people have escaped and built defences.
Some people have had it knocked out of them.
Some people were never born with it.
Some people, their compassion is so strong they can’t Stop caring.
Some people can only care for others.
Some people can only care for themselves.
I did place a trigger, did you see it?
True caring comes from deep inside like a calling, it knows, deep down, there is no choice regardless of the situation, you either can’t settle till you have created the plan or you wait to be called by someone to tell you what the plan is.
Listening to a grieving friend recently, I realised all the rules that others placed on her indirectly. Comparing grieving and what would be seen as respectful to the memory of her husband.
By her actions many could judge their love, if she is having a good day, she is getting over him quickly, a bad, when is she going to move on.
No action can or will satisfy everyone, but they would say they care about her, and are not being judgemental.
The happy couple they knew, always together, will no longer be judged on that but the choices she makes in the future.
No one should tell you how or when to care. You either feel it, or you don’t.
I realised while writing this there is so much more to discuss, but I have thrown a few things against the wall here and I will revisit in a more organised fashion.
Please give me your thoughts?
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