‘Every Man I Date Finds the Love of His Life Right After We Break Up!’

Ask yourself why you’re so into these narratives about how you lose and lose and lose

The Cut
The Cut
Jan 23, 2019 · 8 min read
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By Heather Havrilevsky

Hi Polly,

I’m 36. A long time ago, my first boyfriend, of six years, met the love of his life (fast forward to three-plus kids 15…

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