‘I Can’t Do Casual’

You won’t become brave enough to ask for what you want until you know, for certain, that you deserve it

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By Heather Havrilevsky

Dear Polly,

If one more guy asks me for “something casual,” I’m going to throw something. It’s gone beyond just being exhausting. I’m angry.

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