Which Role Do You Play In Relationships? Victim Or Saviour?

Just so we are clear, neither the victim or the saviour is ideal.
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Most of us would never admit to being the victim, of course.
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But I believe you can probably identify with being the saviour because you are that person who wants to help the world.
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You see it as your calling in life to be of service.
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And it does sound great.
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EXCEPT…
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I listen to peeps speak and you…