Connecting with distributed teams working from home

Working from home can be difficult and isolating

Marty Drill
The Digital Strategist
6 min readApr 14, 2020

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As teams, we generally don’t want to isolate people. In fact we all spent a lot of time seeking to include people. This is easier in person and it takes more effort when a team is not used to everyone working from so many locations. Right now we need people to isolate. The challenge is ensuring that they do not feel isolated.

Working from home is critical right now as literally billions of people around the world are being asked to stay home. Many businesses have failed and many people have lost their jobs. Businesses that can continue to operate with people working from home face a new set of challenges. While people who can work from home are doing their best to make it all work, while their kids also study from home.

With the global death toll surpassing 100,000 and millions out of work, our problems with working from home and isolation, can seem insignificant. There are so many people who are dealing with much bigger issues that the feeling of guilt can mount.

“Shouldn’t I just be grateful that I am healthy and in a job?”

However, after weeks of lock down, it can be easy to lose sight of what we are grateful for. Another video call being interrupted; your husband is getting on your nerves; being the kids teacher while trying to work; not being able to walk over to a colleague and ask them to fix your computer or complete the task they promised; missing your colleagues, or simply your local coffee shop doesn’t make your coffee in the same way as the cafe near work. For some, the absence of the daily commute to work makes a massive difference to their well being, in the short term. While for others the separation between home and work is paramount.

Photo by Anna Shvets from Pexels

Work from home can be really rewarding at times and quite challenging for many different reasons. And the need to work from home to reduce the spread of the corona virus, will likely mean that people in many countries will work from home for over 3 months.

The feeling of uncertainty is high. People are worried about their jobs, their kids education, their teenage daughter lost her job, their elderly parents, the neighbours, the local netball team, the economy, their sister who is a Doctor, their cousin’s business, their Superannuation, the prospect of not being able to go Grandma’s funeral, the kids they support in developing countries and finding a way to tell their 4 year child that their birthday party is cancelled.

People often have a list of worries, at this time that list can be an essay.

We don’t know the extent of what people are dealing with. As leaders, our role is to provide stability and where possible a sense of normality.

What do people need from their company?

Life has changed so much in the last month. And there is so much uncertainty about the future. Our role as leaders is to provide:

  • Trust. Trust is something that is freely given, rather than earnt
  • Treat people like adults and they will behave like adults
  • Measure output, not hours — discuss the need for flexibility with kids at home
  • Clear information. If you don’t know, then say you don’t know and tell people what you do know
  • Regular communication
  • A clear schedule of work and their hours
  • A sense that they are not alone
  • A clear indication that they are needed and wanted
  • People knowing that they are part of something bigger
  • Consider sending a physical meal and the team having it at the same time on a video call
  • Acknowledgement. Find a way to do it. Even if it is a simple note in the mail

Boost connection through a sense of belonging and togetherness

As teams, we generally don’t want to isolate people. In fact we all spent a lot of time seeking to include people. This is easier in person and it takes more effort when a team is not used to everyone working from so many locations.

Try to make things as ‘normal’ as possible. This includes what people are wearing while working from home. If you do not have a company t-shirt and you can afford it, get one printed this week and send it to the team. At our core, people want to belong and at times like this a t-shirt that says they are part of something can actually make a massive difference.

Accessing the office (where possible)

There is a very real threat of relationships breaking down. Having the option of having a break from their family can prove to have a major positive impact on their mental health and relationships. Some team members may live on their own and they may have no human interaction other than online.

Having a break from working from home is critical. Giving people the option to go to the office, diminishes the feeling of being trapped. This may not be possible in all locations around the world, but where people have freedom of movement, organise a roster where individuals can attend an office. Ensure that if there are more than 2 people in an office area that they sit well apart.

For those really missing the office, provide them with this link that provide an office noise generator! https://imisstheoffice.eu/

Suggested actions for trying to have work from home feel a little like work

  • Get the team together on a video call at least once a week
  • Send out a survey asking people how they are coping with the situation. Use it as an opportunity to confirm their home address and their emergency contact
  • Send an update to the whole team every day that includes acknowledgements, opportunities and anything positive to share
  • Send a company cap or t-shirt. This is not about branding, it is about belonging
  • Put a skipping rope in the mail to every team member
  • Send a printed photo of the team if you have one. You will be surprise how many people put it on the wall in their home office
  • Send each team member a printed copy of your values and mission. It may sound corny, but it will remind the team of who you are, what you stand for and why their job is important

While the audience for this article is mainly small to medium business, imagine if large businesses like Telstra were able to put together a care pack for their 20,000 staff that are working from home. This is not about being seen to be a ‘good employer’. This is about fulfilling a basic human need, connection and belonging.

People are resilient and adaptable. However, isolation can be isolating! Humans are social creatures and they require interaction. Where this is stunted, connection, belonging and signals that indicate that they are important and not alone are critical. People and Culture Leaders need to continue to provide support, clarity and direction. You are needed more than ever.

There is a Buddhist saying;

You need:

  • Someone to love
  • Something to do
  • Something to hope for

Give people something to hope for, which in this case is getting back to the office!

Digital Agency — Luminary

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Marty Drill
The Digital Strategist

Passionate about transforming businesses and the customer experience through digital. Focused on creating a sustainable future.