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My Mom’s Wisdom on Her 40th Anniversary
Deep Friendship: The Key to Long Lasting Marriage
We sat in a small wooden chapel on the Tan-Tar-A resort in central Missouri. Mom and I had a couple minutes to talk before everyone arrived.
It was a celebration of family and a renewing of marriage vows.
- Mom and Dad Celebrated 40 years.
- Grandma and Grandpa celebrated 63 years.
- And our extended family had come to spend time together, celebrate and vacation at the Lake of the Ozarks.
What Makes a Great Marriage?
I said to mom, “What do you think the secret is to you and Dad’s marriage lasting? How did you make it to 40 years together?”
She thought for a moment. Then:
“You know, it’s all about deep friendship with your spouse. You could go out and “have sex” with anybody, but your friendship carries you through all things. Your Dad is a good man. One of the best. I love him and he supports me in all my (sometimes) crazy ideas. (she laughed) But we care about one another and want the best for each other.”
