When Masculine meets Feminine.

Tracy Ly
The Dreaming Tree
Published in
4 min readAug 5, 2024

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The Union of the hearts.

“Every heart sings a song incomplete,

Until another heart whispers back” — Plato

Masculine,

When you are born with masculine energy, you become your own hardest critic and might also be critical of those around you.

It frustrates you when people tell you not to be hard on yourself because they don’t understand the driving force within you — the desire to push beyond limits and become the master of your own fate.

When you are born with Masculine energy — reason and logic are your best tools.

You don’t allow yourself to feel weak,

you don’t allow yourself to feel fear,

you don’t allow yourself to have weakness,

you have to be stronger than your fear,

you have to become stronger than your weakness, you have to be stronger than any forces within that might make you feel weak. You don’t allow traumas or fears to hold you back, you have to become tougher than your own self.

Your love is the toughest because you don’t know how to love otherwise. After all, that’s your love for yourself, the toughest kind of love.

But deep down inside, you long for the nurturing, loving, and gentle force.

You long for something different from your own.

You long for the feminine energy, whether you acknowledge it or not, whether you’re aware of it or not, you continually yearn for something that nurtures the fire within.

It’s a longing that even reason and logic cannot resist.

You long for her.

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Feminine,

When you are born with Feminine energy — intuition, and sensitivity serve as your guidance.

Without a sense of reason, you struggle to understand the conflict and violence, even sports seem puzzling, “Daddy, why a bunch of people are fighting over the basketball, can each of them have their own?”

Even your mother doesn’t understand you, “Why didn’t you fight back when people were mean to you?”

Is there something wrong with me? The question lingers until you fully embrace your own feminine energy —

When you become comfortable being soft,

when you allow yourself to be vulnerable,

and when you accept your gentleness as your strength and soft spot.

When you are born with Feminine energy, you need reason and logic to keep from drifting away. You require a guiding force to keep you grounded. You long for protection and seek the embrace of a stronger force to nurture your gentle nature.

You long for Him.

When Masculine meets Feminine,

When you meet someone, whose energy is completely opposite to yours, yet the unfamiliarity only draws you closer, as if an invisible hand is merging your energy with theirs, to form the union,

the union of the hearts,

the union of the souls.

You feel extremely comfortable and safe within the union of their energy merging with yours.

There is a sense of excitement, there is a sense of longing, there is something new, something different, something that tackles your curiosity, what is it?

What is it that keeps drawing me closer? What is it that makes the conversation flow effortlessly?

What is it about this person that —

intrigues the curiosity in your mind,

ignites a fire in your heart,

yet soothes you like calm waters flowing through all your layers of fears and traumas?

Suddenly, the heart is wide open, a vast ocean of emotions flowing through the veins, fueled by an undeniable force that ignites the flame within. AH! It happens, Love happens.

Love happens when,

Masculine meets Feminine,

the union of the two strongest forces.

the union of the hearts,

the union of two souls longing for one another.

When you are born with Masculine, let the world criticize you as you criticize yourself.

When you are born with Feminine, let the world question your softness as you question yourself.

Never apologize for the energy you are born with and into, never apologize for being who you are, whoever you might be and become, embrace yourself with pride, and thrive through your own energy.

Because, out there, there is a force of energy, longing to be united with yours.

Because, out there, there is someone, who will make you realize,

Love happens in the most unexpected way,

Love happens in the most natural way,

Love happens when,

Masculine meets Feminine.

When You meet Me :)

When I meet you…

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P.S: Have you ever wondered which is more painful: accepting love that isn’t yours, or denying your own love — denying your own heart?

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Tracy Ly
The Dreaming Tree

World Championship Day-dreamer who turns thoughts into words, from the mind to the heart 💛