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Ego Is The New Humanity and Taking Over Personal Space. Is It?

What do you think when people talk badly about each other?

Agnes Laurens
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6 min readAug 7, 2021

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I stepped onto the second train — with my oldest descendant — to pick up her two youngest siblings. We had to transfer the train to Utrecht, The Netherlands, to travel to Zwolle. The first train stopped at all train stations. The second train we needed in Zwolle was an intercity — which stopped only at the main cities and big towns. We had a few minutes of transfer time. It was not occupied, on the train.

I heard people communicate a lot with each other. I could be listening to their music — even when they plugged in the headphones.

When I stepped onto the first train, I heard people talking like sh*t about other people. “Have you seen that paper she gave me?” someone, a woman with dark long blond hair and light skin tone, told her fellow conversation partner. I guess they were colleagues. “I have seen it, and full of bullsh*t that makes no sense.”, the other, also a woman, but with curly-short hair — replied firmly. “I don’t know why he hired her, but she can’t do her work accurately. I can do it much thoroughly.”, the first one responded.

My eyes frowned high adequately that I assumed they saw me glaring. Yeah, I looked at them too. Sorry folks, but this is not whereby you should speak about anyone else. Only giving yourself the ego you want isn’t what humanity is. Humanity is taking care of others who don’t know something. Humanity is being in a challenging position to help others to find their way. Are you saying to others that you can do the project more salutary? Therefore you are depreciating your co-workers?

On the other hand, should I have said something? Am I that coward? Or is it just not sniffing in other people’s business. Oh, yeah, I just did by lowering, did I? What did I know about the situation? There is always more side on the medallion, but this action lets people think they are everything, but others aren’t. People will get more selfish.

My youngest two girls visited their grandparents, in the North of The Netherlands, for several days in their second week of this Summer holidays. I had to pick them up, and I took my oldest descendant with me. It is always great to get your…

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Agnes Laurens
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Written by Agnes Laurens

Agnes Laurens is a writer. She writes for the local newspaper. Agnes lives in The Netherlands, with three daughters. https://linktr.ee/alaurens

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