Having The Freedom To Choose
Who benefits by forcing people to choose?
People believe that we must demand change if we want things or people to change. But there is more than proof out there that states that we can only inspire change if we want it. Because that’s all we can do. We can inspire someone or ourselves to change but that’s it. The rest must come from the one who needs to change for the best of themselves.
If we want someone to change, we must remind ourselves whenever we can of the fact that we can only inspire it for someone. Soon enough, they will bring back to their mind of what you inspired of them and they’ll start to apply that to their life and make the necessary changes they want. Because that’s their responsibility and within their own control only!
No one should make anyone do anything they don’t want to. Trust, me, I’ve been there with more than plenty of experience on that comment. And it can be different as to what Ella Frell’s little secret that her fairy godmother gave her as a gift when she was a baby: as declared below in the description/main plot of the movie: Ella Enchanted!
As a baby, Ella (Anne Hathaway) receives a visit from Lucinda (Vivica A. Fox), her fairy godmother, and is bestowed with a magical talent that requires her to obey anything that she is told to do. This proves to be more of a curse than a blessing, particularly once her mother dies and she is forced to live with the cruel Dame Olga (Joanna Lumley). Eventually, Ella embarks on a journey to find Lucinda and break the spell, accompanied by the handsome Prince Charmont (Hugh Dancy).
