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8 Talks You Need to Have When You Are Dating

Have them early and often! It can make such a big difference.

Patricia Vilchez
The Everyday Reflection
2 min readDec 28, 2024

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Relationship advice with Kimberly Moffit.

  1. The Finance Talk:

— What does splitting costs look like for you?
— What are your joint money goals?
— Do you prioritize saving or living for the moment?

2. The Cheating Talk:

— What does cheating look like in your relationship?
— What boundaries do you think are important to discuss?
—How do you define emotional versus physical infidelity?

3. The Comfort Talk:

— When you’re down, how do you like to be comforted?
— Do you prefer more space or closeness?
— How can I best show you I care about you?

4. The Intimacy Talk:

— What does intimacy mean to you, both emotionally and physically?
— How can we ensure we’re both comfortable and fulfilled in this area?
— What are your boundaries?

5. The Work Talk:

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Patricia Vilchez
Patricia Vilchez

Written by Patricia Vilchez

A young woman living and dating in Paris, sharing my experiences and some life lessons advice I pattu.v01@gmail.com Check out my podcast: Dating in Paris

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