A Guy Says “When Are We Hanging Out”?
Why I am not okay with lazy communication.
When Are We Hanging Out? — When you ask me, properly.
A guy saying: when are we hanging out or when are you coming over or when are you going to visit me or anything that resembles this type of message, by text or by responding to your Instagram stories, is the laziest lowest effort thing that a boy can say.
He is literally fishbating you, dangling something in front of you, so you think: Oh maybe we are going to go out on a date soon. Spoiler alert— No, you are not.
Hanging out it's not dating.
Unfortunately, we seem to have dropped our standards about dating and relationships.
In a previous post, I talked about the importance of knowing what you want, this is relevant because when you don't know what you want, you settle for anything, as I did in the past.
Before changing my mindset about dating and knowing what I want, I would have been so available for guys like these: low-effort guys.
Since I didn’t have standards or boundaries I was okay with not hearing from them for days and days. I was okay with them not respecting my time or my…
