How Men Reject You Without Explicitly Saying so

If you have asked him out several times and he is still evasive then it's time to let him go.

Patricia Vilchez
The Everyday Reflection

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You aren’t really supposed to try so hard.

Putting things in context:

So I have this sweet amazing friend and she is super into a guy she met during a night out, who doesn't seem to correspond to her feelings.

For me, the whole situation is evident, for her is all confusing, this is why:

They met over two months ago, back in September, and throughout that time they have met probably four times.

Every month since October she keeps telling me she is done with this weird dating limbo situation. — This is probably a very relatable sentiment, I know it is for me, I must admit.

And he is still sort of/kind of present in her life.

I am using these terms sort of/kind of because it's all so vague, it’s all pretty ambiguous.

In the past I used to waste so much energy trying to understand what seems evident now:

Remember mixed signals means they don’t like you like that.

So he reacts to her stories with emojis or with flirty messages every now and then, and she takes…

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Patricia Vilchez
The Everyday Reflection

I am a foreign young woman living and dating in Paris, sharing my experiences and some life lessons advice I pattu.v01@gmail.com