Bwiseman
The Good Life Fall ‘23
1 min readOct 19, 2023

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I don’t feel that there is any one way to love or any one way to describe love. How we love and how we feel love I feel varies based on our own personal experiences in life. Some people may feel much more comfortable showing and accepting love than another person. To me, Love is a very strong human connection that develops over a long amount of time spent together. It is a natural emotion that arises based on the attachment that you develop after time. I also feel like there are different kinds of love. Friendship love can be developed much easier and faster than romantic love. Especially on the male side, romantic love is a hard concept to understand and develop. With romantic love comes so much vulnerability and emotion that can be very scary for many people. Especially those with a traumatic past, it can be very difficult to allow yourself to become that vulnerable because they are scared to become hurt again. I feel that friendship and love are different. I feel that it is much more casual and does not require so much emotion. That is why it is so easy for males to develop such strong friendships I believe. In conclusion I feel that there is no right or wrong way to accept or feel love. It’s a natural human emotion that we cannot avoid but does not fall under just one definition. Love is just far too complex to truly define it.

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