Redefining love

Bell Hooks’ statement, “To begin by always thinking of love as an action rather than a feeling is one way in which anyone using the word in this manner automatically assumes accountability and responsibility,” is both stimulating and compelling because it challenges the traditional view of love as a passive emotion and encourages us to think of it as an active force that requires engagement and commitment. In a society where love is frequently reduced to emotions, Hooks’ viewpoint prompts us to reconsider our understanding of love. Love is a conscious choice and commitment to act with care and compassion not just an emotion we passively experience. This perspective highlights the significance of accepting responsibility for our actions and the consequences they have on others. The idea of love as an action aligns with the concept of “agape” love, characterized by selflessness and an unconditional commitment to the well-being of others. Hooks’ words force us to consider the impact of our actions as well as the reasons behind them, illustrating that love is something we should actively demonstrate through our choices and behaviors rather than just feel. This perspective challenges us to be more conscious of how we express love In our daily lives, serving as a reminder that love, as an action, demands effort, motivation, and accountability. Ultimately, we have to consider whether we are truly acting out of love or are simply experiencing a brief emotion. In a culture dominated by self-interest and individualism, Hooks’ call to see love as an obligation is a timely reminder of the positive effects of love when it is embraced as an active force in our lives.