Don’t Be Scared…
It could really turn out to be something more great than you may think or believe. Take that leap of faith.
Challenge isn’t a failure.
Failure! I’m too familiar with this term! And I’m at times ashamed of it, throughout my life! At times I just want to hide under my blankets and cry while listening to sad music, but others I feel powerful enough to do something that matters and that feeling is one of the best feelings in the world!
Do you wanna know how to not be at war with yourself? Yes we will all have to live with our mental condition for the rest of our lives while on recovery non-stop and finding new and creative ways to continue battling our own demon inside our brain.
The past. No matter what anyone goes through in their lifetime, there’s always the possibility of healing and moving on from it.
And it will require time, patience, commitment and a lot more in order for the results to come as well as for you to feel better.
And not i the same place you are still at right now, working on healing from it and/or possibly struggling to recover from the painful, traumatic moments that have taught us enough to learn from them and be careful when and if we let our guard down.
Other painful yet traumatic moments we may go through in our lifetime are the ones that are the impacts of the stigma surrounding mental illness.
And yeah mental illness may not define us when we choose but it can make us stronger and wiser. Many of those recovering from depression (one of the main and most common mental illnesses had found themselves feeling like it has been a great thing for them.
For it has brought them to advocating for mental health, standing up for something in which they didn’t know until certain points throughout the suffering and recovery moments.
But overall failures, when people bring it back up in my life, it haunts me at night and I can’t seem to put it back where I put things that I’ve moved on from, somehow.
Many of us have a fear of getting hurt; but we find ourselves getting hurt ourselves! Sometimes getting hurt is our fault and in our control and other times it isn’t in our hands to control!
You want something, go get it.
If you have feelings for someone, I wouldn’t be nervous.
Only thing that makes Maya nervous is the only thing everyone wants to happen, never happens because everyone’s too afraid to make it happen. Life is changing, but (this) isn’t.
Life as we know it has changed. Scared? Nah, I got you.
I walk through life, the way I walk through life.
Be like an eagle and soar above the mockingbird.
Disconnect to connect:
It’s not only when we decide to put down our phones, switch off our computers, look into each other’s eyes, will we be able to touch each other’s hearts.
Disconnect to connect:
It’s not only when we decide to put down our phones, switch off our computers, look into each other’s eyes, will we be able to touch each other’s hearts. Because it’s not when you look into each other and make a human connection, that you will begin to know each other.
Life lesson taught! Learned by me, which I have learned now still to let go of the virtual world for a while and notice what’s around me! The real world, where real interactions happen physically rather than inside a screen.
How your actions will affect others
Don’t make assumptions based on what you see.
Is beauty only skin deep?
- Every sense
- I am light and the gift of vision
Relationships are based on what the other person can do for you, financially, emotionally, or in your career. How wrong that is. It’s not about what someone can do for you, it’s about how they make you feel when your with them, or how you both feel.
With every big decision comes an equally important share of the risk. ~ Demi Lovato
Remember, if you want change, you don’t demand or force it. You inspire it. And it’s all in the language and tone of the actions that get the positive results that we all expect but never receive in return.
Why has this still not changed? Well for parents, they always seem to demand change in their kids for they think and believe they have logical reasoning and proof to back up their reasoning for choosing that way of responding to any problem. And also believe that their kids aren’t trying yet overall doing their part in which their parents expect out of them. But in result, no new change yet positive comes out of it.
So why do parents continue the same method without realizing what they may be doing wrong here? Well it’s their logic and proof and their way of thinking and living for as long as they’ve been alive for. How their own parents taught them to act as human beings and responsible citizens of society. In which is what our parents want us to become but aren’t using the right method to get that kind of results.
Well most parents appear to be as stated earlier as stubborn, closed-minded and blind. Why and how do I know this? Well my own personal experiences. I’ve tried for many years, and nothing appeared to work, and ever so easily, I gave in. I let them destroy me. Self destruction. Destroying oneself, ourself is way easier than one may think and too easy than it should be.
And as common as it is in our society, we must stay strong and hold on to what we have left. It may not be much, it’s enough to rebuild what we let ourselves be destroyed. Because we gave in too easily, without asking ourselves how badly we wanted and to fight for it with everything we’ve got. Because we if don’t, we are just cheating ourselves.
I don’t know if this is wrong because someone else is telling me that it’s wrong. But I feel this so let me just like, try my best not to let this happen again. We weren’t necessarily put in the best position to make the best decisions. You can’t be hard on yourself for these were the cards that you were given. So you have to understand that these like that’s not who you are. You know you’re trying to be the best you can be but that’s all you can do. If you don’t give it all you got, you’re only cheating yourself. Give it all you got. But if it ends up happening, it ends up happening. That’s what it’s that’s what’s happening with me. It’s like God I’m giving it all I got. Sometimes I’m weak and I’m gonna do it. And it’s like I’m not giving myself grace. I’m just like understanding, that’s just how it is. – Justin Bieber, Purpose
Getting It Right…
Can I start again, with my faith shaken? Cause I can’t go back and undo this. I just have to stay and face my mistakes. But if I get stronger and wiser, I’ll get through this.
What can you do when your good isn’t good enough? And all that you touch tumbles down? Cause my best intentions keep making a mess of things. I just wanna fix it somehow. But how many times will it take? Oh, how many times will it take for me to get it right?
So I throw up my fist, throw a punch in the air, and accept the truth that sometimes life isn’t fair! Yeah, I’ll send out a wish, yeah, I’ll send up a prayer. And finally someone will see how much I care.
Many times in my life, can relate to these lyrics! And I had to learn them from the hard ways and I didn’t have the choice for most of them! But overall it has given me, the right skills and bigger and better intentions that prevent these past mistakes from reoccurring!
I just hope that many others out there other than all you Happiers, will notice the things that I’ve changed, and have become overall as a human being living a normal life on earth!
“We all have our ups and downs. But it’s how you deal with them that defines who you are. You must do the thing that you think you cannot do” – Full Out
Be brave, it’s worth it all in the end.
When it comes to choosing whether someone or something is worth taking the risk, it’s more than just analyzing and evaluating whether it’s worth the risk for your health but also for yourself.
Is what you’re about to risk what you want so badly enough, that you’d fight for it, then if so, nothing else is to be considered.
With every big decision, comes an equally important share of the risk. – Demi Lovato, Can’t Back Down (Camp Rock 2)
The Fosters “Minor Offences”
I think change is hard for people especially when they can’t see the big picture.
Pretty Little Liars
People are not always the things that they do.
I was angry for a long time. Every morning I wake up, I drink coffee and I walk outside. It’s either sunny or its raining. But there I am. I’m free. I don’t see why Charlotte should get the chance to get caught in the rain. And no I’m not afraid of her.
My dad taught me that fear is natural. It’s a good instinct. He also said that you can decide what your gonna be afraid of. I decided I’m not afraid of Charlotte Dislaurentis.