Follow Your Own Rules, Ditch The Rule Book

Do What Makes You Happy

Take a risk: without making the necessary risks, and without stepping outside our comfort zones, nothing would change. And we wouldn’t become better each and everyday.

Make a chance: take chances with the element of risk to earn better change, if you don’t; nothing will change nor happen if you don’t work for it.

Make a change: dreams don’t work unless you do.

When it comes to life, many of us just suck at playing it the best that we should for how hard it truly is. But it’s the faith and strength in us that makes it more able to cope with and succeed in the ways and areas that we intend to.

“The main thing we want to strive with this movie is that you can fight for what you believe in, that you feel like you might not have a voice and people might not hear you. But little do you realize that if you believe in something as much as you should, and people will hear you, and people will recognize genuine people!” ~ Ryan Guzman

Change doesn’t happen unless you commit yourself to it and putting in the effort and work.

Regardless of what people think of mental health and myself as a person in society, I’m still gonna be me. I’m not gonna back down no matter how hard anyone tries, I’m still gonna follow my heart in who I want to be regardless of what they want me to be.

I’m not gonna let anything like my own values, priorities, beliefs or anything that’s truly and crucillay important to me be put as risk nor be convinced otherwise to change. These beliefs, values, priorities, passions, purpose, and many others, are most of what makes me who I am. I’m not gonna let anything change my perception of these important things tagged to my personality as a human being living here on earth like everyone else.

No matter what life throws at me, I’ll still remain the person I am still working on fully becoming as the human being that God as made me. Regardless of what, everything that makes me who I am, is stronger than anything else to change anything about me or my life in any negative way.

My life, purpose, passions, priorities, beliefs, values, friends, family, role models/inspirations, dreams, life goals, are so crucially important that I’ll sacrifice with a risk to remain strong with no change if doesn’t result in a positive outcome, for I believe it will/would be worth the risk. I’d definitely make sure I’d complete that with considering that it would’ve affect or put my mental health at risk in any negative way or form.

“May your coming year be filled with magic and dreams and madness. I hope you read some fine books and kiss someone who thinks you are wonderful and don’t forget to make some art – write or draw or build or sing or live as only you can. And I hope, somewhere in the next year, you surprise yourself.” – Neil Gaiman

I feel that I need music to feel the way I should when I lose myself or lose sight of what I should be focusing on. Because it is too easy to think or focus on the wrong things. Life is harder, and not as easy as it may have been.

Life is also unfair plenty yet other times more impossible to survive yet we think we can only survive it when we have the right people beside us there for support. Having each other’s backs. Having something that special is so important to have in any relationship. Some people take that for granted or criticize it like it’s not important!

You can’t expect anyone to wake up without a mental illness anymore. Life is different and more harsh than it should be. But all we can do is do our best with the people that we have by our side to get through it. And the other thing (if you want), changing the rules. If you don’t like them, change them. Don’t hate the player, hate the game. But I can say that in reply to that, you can change it to something that makes more sense, logical to you and more creative than ever!

For as long as I can remember, I thought I knew who I was becoming but deep down I was fighting so many demons inside my head that were making me not only unhealthy mentally but also were destroying me. At some point my demons made me easy enough with destroying myself. I didn’t know how to fix myself. Yet I found myself in different ways of telling othersinspiring. way to stay strong and other things which with enough proof, I didn’t really know how to do that nor had any moment in my past life where I knew how.

But from that as well with my ADHD, depression and enough symptoms showing PTSD, I’m working more each and every day with becoming more of the person that I was always meant to be.

So much I thought I knew who I was but deep down it was a bunch of hidden lies and tricks given by my depression. But through all that hard work to recreat the real person I was meant to be, it’s felt so amazing and so worthwhile. And I have finally come to be that person and am still improving and changing little parts about myself each and everyday. To make myself stronger and wiser mentally!


The things you regret are the risks you don’t take.



“Tomorrow is the first blank page of a 365 page book. Write a good one.”


I absolutely love that I’m an optimist! It makes me seem more interesting from what I am thinking! Yes of course I’ve given up on some things in my past life but I’m a new and improved me and now that I’m fully embracing my optimism, nothing is impossible, for me! And anyone who tries!

Why are “optimists” the future?

Yes at the moment we appreciate what we do have, but while we do that, optimists are creating the impossible and things that make the world a better place!


They are the future. Why? And how? Well it’s when they have given so much time, and then 15 years later they are where they’d hope they’d be in their point in their life. For the fact that they didn’t throw their dreams away for how long it took to achieve, means the future!

There are two wolves. And they are always fighting. One is darkness and despair. The other is light and hope . Which wolf wins?
  • Whichever one you feed.

Begin again!!!

“Isn’t it nice to think that tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it yet?” – L.M. Montgomery

Fresh starts:

I like history. Why? Because we are all living it. In fact we make new history everyday. Why not join in?

Regret is one of the most scariest things in life.

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