Me Dealing With My Online Dating Life

Online Dating as an adult is like going to the dump and looking around for the least broken and disgusting thing.

Drthefit | Ankita
The Haven

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After being actively doing online dating for a while, I think, I am going to be Single for my entire life.

I know, everyone is not the same and one size fits all is not the right thing to think. But somehow, I am attracting all kind of jerks on my way.

My Open letter is to the guy I recently get acquainted with and it made me wonder WHY and WHAT am I doing there.

Dear Sam — If I text you first on a dating app or reply instantly, it doesn’t mean I am desperate for you. I am being kind, a good human being, and saving you that 365 hours of mental and physiological therapy sessions where you would ask the same question to 10 different therapists- why are you still single?

See, I care for you and of course for your money. ‘Time is money’, you taught me this once upon a time. Remember when you canceled on me just to attend that ‘important’ work meeting that came from nowhere.

Dear Sam— When I am on a date with you, I can pay bills(or you call it a ‘check’ just to sound posh).

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Drthefit | Ankita
The Haven

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