That’s Why I am Going To Ghost Him

Ghosting — the grown-up way of putting your fingers in your ears and going “Lalalalala- I can’t hear ya”

Drthefit | Ankita
The Haven

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This is from my recent dating fiasco and it started with an unintentional right swipe.

Like most of the online dater, I was tired of swiping left. That fateful day, I specifically remember — I actually started counting how many left swipes(sometimes it even goes to ~150 without even swiping anyone right) — I am going to do it in my couch catalogue session. It’s the term I use, when I am sitting on the couch and just browsing different profiles presented to me by some strange algorithm, judging every picture, bio, and whatnot. I know — it’s not healthy, but I do just to keep my own vanity intact.

Anyway, let’s move on to my story, accident swipes happened and I am sure it happens with everyone who is on dating apps and trying to find their love of life.

He was nice and all but he was not the type of person I am usually into. He was not fitting the prospect I am looking for. But you know, after having three major failed relationships, I thought, maybe I should date someone who is not my type and may offer some different perspective to my life.

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Drthefit | Ankita
The Haven

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