Top Ten Ways To Seduce a Woman

It’s not all that difficult

William Mersey
The Haven
Published in
5 min readApr 24, 2021

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The art of seduction is one that comes easy and naturally to some men — while it completely eludes others. For the latter group, this is a guide that I find intuitive — but have had many friends over the years who were so clueless, I feel the need to illuminate.

Now don’t get me wrong. I’m no Casanova. But having dealt with hundreds of women in the course of my sales career, I think I have an insider’s view of how this all works. So here goes — and in no particular order — the ten best ways to seduce a woman:

Be interesting

After an initial overture in which you find a woman willing to talk to you, allow her to converse, and then make note of what she talks about. Then follow her line of thought with something informative that adds to the conversation. Intercourse is intercourse — whether it’s verbal or physical. And if you can show her you’re good at the conversational version, she’ll instantly figure you’re good at the other kind.

Be confident but not conceited

Women love a confident man. But they don’t like a guy who’s full of himself. It’s all in your body language, really. Seemingly stupid shit like posture means a lot. If you’re stooped and hunched, you look weak. If you stand tall and erect, it’s metaphorical…

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William Mersey
The Haven

Daily Beast, NY Daily News, Daily Mail, Independent contributor. "In all matters of principle, it's the principle that matters." Just call me "Dollar Bill."