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Marrying U.S. Citizens for a Green Card is a Growing Trend!

Some South Asians marry US citizens, hoping for a shortcut to the American dream

Yana Bostongirl
The Heritage Pub
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3 min readFeb 6, 2025

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Indian bride.
Indian bride: Source

Love or opportunity

Once, when I was 12 and visiting relatives in India, a luxury brand car pulled up at my uncle, a lawyer’s house. Since we were playing outside, we couldn’t help but notice the heavy-set Caucasian woman who emerged from it followed by two other men.

The person holding her hand was a handsome and much younger Indian male. Together they made their way to meet my uncle.

Later, I heard around the dinner table that the woman had come to Kerala to sightsee from the US and fell in love with her tour guide — a one-week version of a 90-day fiance. They had come to see my uncle about how they could go about a quick marriage so the woman could apply for his green card.

At the time, I wondered why my aunt asked in dismay at the turn of events, it is only now, as an adult, that I understand what may have been at play here — an example of how love, marriage, and immigration can intertwine in complicated ways.

Perhaps one of them was genuinely in love, eager to get married and start a family swept away by the allure of a tall, dark, handsome stranger who seemed to have…

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The Heritage Pub
The Heritage Pub

Published in The Heritage Pub

Where Stories of Family History, Traditions, and Cultural Identity Come to Life

Yana Bostongirl
Yana Bostongirl

Written by Yana Bostongirl

✨A memoir in motion, no script, just life| Blogger with a quirky Indian American flavor🌶️| Owner of Good Vibes Club publication💫 & The Heritage Pub 🪔

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