The Honest Perspective

An application of bear knowledge to help solve life’s problems

The thrill of hitting “Publish” — but then what?

I will not go gently into the night

Trying to help when everyone hates you — and untangling family hatred

How I Opened My Eyes to the World Women Endure Every Day

If the wife is reluctant to have sex, the husband should know the 7 most important reasons.

Tears and pain in a fractured and confusing world

How I Learned That Looking Like Nothing Means Being Treated Like Nothing

You only need to ask three questions on your first few dates.

Sex After Sex Work

Passionate, yet traumatic, never again

When the world tells you to stop and you know you have to keep going, you might as well do it in style, and covered in glitter

After living abroad, I don’t believe in the United States anymore.

On finding the right buffet

Searching for light in the darkness

A Simple Tool That Turned My Life Around

Why was I a walking target?

The written word and I are…complicated, and I may need your advice

A Poem

Nowadays, I’m not so sure

What makes a rich life fall apart? There are 3 reasons for all suffering.

When home is nothing but fabric and stakes, losing it means everything

A rare meet-up with my friend of 65 years sparked a day of revelations