Life Is Not All Its Cracked Up To Be

Moments of all kinds can teach you unimaginable lessons you never thought of:

Good evening everyone. I’m here to talk about everything that you will help you have a full and clear understanding of what brings people to acting sketchy, or sending repetitive/excessive messages to you in friendship scenarios and those that are in professional settings between a cashier and customer or seller and a customer through online selling/buying platforms.

NOTE: To begin covering some of these questions why people in certain scenarios and different reactions happen, I’m gonna mention first: think about a situation where you were treated poorly and you were maybe under pressure and weren’t able to handle it which led you to lashing out and saying things you regretted.

If you want someone to understand what you are going through or the condition or illness you have that you struggle with day to day, sometimes we have to put it on pause and focus on understanding someone else’s experience.

We’re all so desperate to be understood, we forget to be understanding. ~ Beau Taplin

It’s about taking the time to understand what someone is going so because having a full picture and understanding of what they’re going through, can help you understand why they reacted the way they did.

Sometimes when we are in pain, or mistreated, we lash out. Sometimes even those who are abused physically and/or emotionally/mentally, lash out. As quoted from Flashpoint. But we also have to remember that there is something much bigger than what is right in front of you. As Cat Grant from Supergirl:

Here’s the thing Cara. Everybody gets angry, everybody. And there is no pill that will eradicate this particular emotion. I know this because if there were such a pill I would be popping them like peez!

Well you need to find a release. You need to take up some boxing or start screaming at your housekeeper but the real key Kara is that you need to figure out what’s really bothering you. For example, I am so furious with my mother, so I took it out on you. And you’re so mad at me and this is the important bit: you weren’t really mad at me, you were really mad at something else. And you need to find that anger behind the anger and you need to figure out what is really making you mad.

And another point from When Calls The Heart:

• But fighting doesn’t solve anything. It only leads to more anger and more fighting.

But also it comes a time when you gotta:

• Hank: You think you can keep your cool this time?
• Supergirl: I’m not afraid of my anger anymore. I can use it, channel it to work for me and not against me.

Here’s some good quotes about anger: ⬇️

• Find your anger, let that guide you. But sometimes your insticts are all you’ve got. You better use them if you wanna get out alive. ~ Station 19
• If you try to get rid of fear and anger without knowing their meaning, they will grow stronger and return. ~ Deepak Chopra

Expressing your rage and anger is part of your healing process. You can’t move on until you let it out. ~ Gossip Girl

• You can tell how dangerous a person is by the way they hold their anger inside themselves quietly. ~ Unknown

You were right. Anger really does cloud judgement. ~ Caitlyn, The Flash