What Keeps You From Healing Your Broken Heart?
The many things that keep you from moving on and letting go
“We hurt so much because we have lost a part of ourselves. If we have loved much, we must have given much also, and when everything’s over, we feel as though we have lost everything.” — Mend My Broken Heart
The pain of a broken heart is oftentimes beyond what words could ever tell. We may try to deny it or to forget it. But somehow, it never seems to go away. It reminds us of all the years we’ve spent trying to make a relationship work. It brings to mind the happiest times we’ve ever had only to plunge us to the deepest grief later on.
How could we ever heal a broken heart? Why couldn’t we move on?
Here are just some of the things that may keep you from healing your broken heart:
1. Thoughts of blame
After a relationship gets broken, you deal with the tempting thought of blaming something or someone. Why didn’t the relationship work? Who was the one at fault?
You then blame yourself for everything you thought you could have done. You blame yourself for being jealous all the time or for not spending quality time with the one you love.
