The Real Reason Why Nice Guys Struggle To Get the Girl

It’s not the reason you think

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It’s popular to say that what are termed “bad boys” get all the girls and what are termed “nice guys” don’t, it’s also popular to say that “nice guys” finish last. But the problem is nobody even really knows what a “bad boy” is defined as nor what a “nice guy” is defined as. Not really.




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David Graham

David Graham

Due to injury I write using voice dictation software. Lover of psychology, science, humour, fiction & self-improvement.

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