10 Questions Every Person Wants To Ask Their Ex After A Breakup
Originally published at lmt-lss.com on February 9, 2016.
Certain things that you want to find out from your ex after the breakup.
Breakups are painful. Even when the relationship isn’t a good one, you feel the same amount of hurt. It’s because you not only lose the relationship and your lover, but also the dreams that you shared with each other during the relationship.
So, after breaking up with your partner, even if you try to move on and live a normal life, it becomes really tough for you as several questions pop up in your mind about your ex.
Here’s a list of questions that every person would definitely want to ask their ex:
1. Why did we really break up?
When you’re the one who was dumped, the most important question you have in your mind is, why did he really break up with you?
2. Did you really love me?
You want to know if he really loved you when the both of you were together, or was it just to fulfill his own selfish need, like say, for a rebound.
3. Do you still think about me?
You want to know if your ex misses those beautiful moments shared together and if he feels lonely recalling those moments.
4. Did you ever think you’d marry me?
You want to know if he ever envisaged you as his life partner, or if he was just fooling around with you for fun.
5. Do you ever think of getting back together?
When you feel like reconciling with your ex and want to know if he feels the same way about you and the relationship.
6. Did you ever cheat on me?
Even though you might not be ready to hear the answer to this if it goes a certain way, you’d still like to know if he was loyal to you.
7. What did you tell your new girlfriend about me?
When he has already moved on and got into another relationship, you’d like to know how he spoke about you to his new girl.
8. Do you still have the mementos of our time together?
Whether it was the first movie ticket or the gifts you gave him on occasions like his birthday or Valentine’s Day, you might like to know if he still has them with him.
9. Do you think of me and our happy moments together when you’re with your girlfriend?
Now that he’s in another relationship, you want to know if he misses you, and so you’d like to ask him if he’s reminded of you in situations, like when he hugs or kisses her.
10. Do you compare your girlfriend with me?
If you ask him this, he might think you’re kidding, but you’re not. You really want to know what he thinks of you in comparison to his now-girlfriend.
