8 Ways To Determine You Both Are Compatible
Originally published at lmt-lss.com on November 24, 2015.
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Compatibility is the essence of any relationship. It is the matchstick that ignites the flames of true love. But how do you know that the person with whom you’re thinking of spending the rest of your life with is compatible? Let me help you out. Here are 10 ways by which you can determine that you both are compatible with each other.
1. Gives You Honest Opinions
Every girl hopes for an honest partner. Although she loves being praised, she’ll appreciate it when you give her an honest opinion. Whether it’s about her cooking, her new hairstyle or her driving, if you’re honest with her, she’ll consider it a sign of compatibility.
2. Knows Exactly How To Make You Laugh
Girls like to laugh and they love when their guy is the reason behind it. A guy is compatible with you if he knows you inside out and keeps figuring out ways to make you laugh. His good sense of humour is one of the qualities of being an ideal partner. Even though he’s good at none, he is ready to dance or sing for you before a huge crowd as long as it ends up making you laugh.
3. Likes Your Taste In Music
Everyone loves music. Sometimes music is the only way to get your mind off everything else. Each of us has a certain genre of music we prefer to lend our ears to. For some it is rock, for some ballads and for some it’s something that soothes the soul. If you like each other’s taste in music, it is a sign that you are compatible. You can share music when upset or you can simply let music speak for what you have to say.
4. Knows How To End A Fight
A relationship is like a roller coaster ride which has ups and downs. Even though you love your partner to the moon and back, there are going to be disagreements and disputes. But just like every war has an end, this ends too. One has to turn down the weapon when the other one is stubborn. In the end what matters is that you bring the ride back on track.
5. Respects Your Family
Men and women, both seek a partner who respects their family in the same way they respect their own. They should consider your parents like theirs. A girl would want her guy to let her visit her family whenever she wishes to. She would also want him to be a part of the family whenever the occasion demands.
6. Gives You Space With Your Friends
It is always good to have a possessive partner, but when it comes to hanging out with friends without your partner, we expect them to give us some space. Everyone has a group of close friends, including friends of the opposite sex. So if you are a person who would never stop hanging out with your BFFs, ascertain if your partner hesitates in letting you do that.
7. Being Patient With You
In every relationship, one is fire and one is ice. It is just a matter of time that who chooses to be what. Everyone has their bad days, your partner can be moody at times. But if you try to be patient and humble with them in those situations, you can show them you are truly compatible.
8. Ticks Every Item On Your Checklist
The heart matters more than looks. Everyone has a specific checklist when it comes to finding the ideal soul mate. To see if your partner is compatible, look out for the points in your list. Nobody is perfect, if a person meets most of the qualities we desire in our better half and fulfils majority of them, they are a compatible match.