Love | Relationship | Dating

How Can Laziness Kill a Relationship (And Loyalty Too!)

Why Loyalty Cannot Keep the Love Alive

Mehak Adlakha
The Live. Love. Laugh. Pub
2 min readJul 12, 2024

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Photo by Lenin Estrada on Unsplash

Just when you think you’re doing enough, you might not be.

You might not realize it, but laziness can kill a relationship. You may think just being there and staying loyal is enough, but it’s not.

Random compliments, quick phone calls to ask how they are and say “I love you,” dinner dates and thoughtful gifts go a long way in relationships. Making your partner feel heard, seen, and appreciated is even more important. These small efforts can do wonders.

Many people fail to provide these small gestures and then complain that their relationship is dying, even though they are loyal.

Loyalty is not enough!

Little things make a huge impact on a relationship because everything matters.

You don’t need to buy them gifts every day or call them every hour. A quick call before and after work is all it takes. Random compliments aren’t hard to give either.

If you can’t appreciate the presence of your partner, you need to work on yourself.

Stop making one person do all the work, and if they do, you cannot complain if they…

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Mehak Adlakha
The Live. Love. Laugh. Pub

26 | Owner of 'The Live. Love. Laugh. Pub' | Software Engineer @ Microsoft, India | Life Enthusiast and Tech Explorer | I promote positivity and knowledge.