Early Lessons in Becoming a Grandmother
Lesson 1: Turning 65 is Not a Big Deal — Or is it?
As we await the birth of my first grandchild, my birthday lands with a thud: 65 years old, an age that is heavily symbolic of reaching “older adulthood.” Certainly, by this age, I am allowed to be a grandmother, just as I’ve let my hair (mostly) go into its natural silver.
Nowadays, at 65, you may not seem old-old, but you can’t exactly claim middle age anymore. It’s an age that still confers the status of older. It’s the age for Medicare, the age research studies use to denote older adults. It’s an age when you can no longer pretend you’re not getting old.
I’m not complaining, but I feel it. I’m thinking more about my obvious place in the generations of my family, the circle of life.
Hurry up, little one, I’m eager to greet you!
Lesson 2: Falling in Love
At last, my new grandson is here. For the past two days, he and his mother have been through the ordeal of birth, with his dad alongside. The fresh baby, though full-term, has to stay in the NICU for 24 hours of observation.
My son leads me into the NICU where the nurse asks if I have washed my hands, and I have, as I was told. The NICU is just a long room designated as…
