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My Real-Life Meet Cute From 40 Years Ago Today

Readers, I married him

5 min readSep 8, 2025

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That morning, I pulled my greasy hair into a ponytail, skipped makeup, and rushed out the door so I wouldn’t be late for class registration.

There was no point in dolling up when I’d be standing in lines all morning melting in the unusually hot and humid early fall weather. I might as well wait to shower until after registration.

No one told me this was the day they’d take a picture to grace my student ID and the campus photo directory for the next four years. Or that I would meet my future husband in line.

These were the Byzantium days before online registration. The process had two steps. First, we had two minutes with a generic faculty advisor to approve our prospective schedule. Then we trekked across campus to the field house, where we joined a series of lines for IDs, meal cards, bursar, etc., before the main event of course registration.

Time slots were determined by last name, so it wasn’t a huge surprise when I ran into my cousin while waiting for Def-Dew’s turn in advising. I hadn’t seen Phil in more than four years, so we had a quick catch-up before discussing majors and which classes to take when the guy next to Phil interrupted us with advice.

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Mary DeVries
Mary DeVries

Written by Mary DeVries

I delight, despair and write about a life lived around the world. Fueled by Yorkshire Gold tea.

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