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The Memoirist

Too Many Imaginary Boys

Being in love with the idea of love

Photo by Sharon McCutcheon on Unsplash

“Your taste in men has been abysmal,” a friend said to me once. More than once.

I didn’t accept this until recently. I’d never been hit. There was no abuse in my mind. My mind was wrong.

I wouldn’t say there is something innate about my unfortunate romantic choices, but they have been around for quite some time…




We publish memoirs, personal essays, and fictional memoir. Creative stories unpacked from the nostalgic hope chests of our lives.

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Amy Von Blickhahn

Amy Von Blickhahn

Writer of memoir essays, pop culture and all the trivia you never knew you wanted.

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