Do you really don’t care?

“If you won’t catch up this course now, it could be probably to late. I DON’T CARE! If you won’t change your unhealthy lifestyle it could follow some greater consequences which won’t be changeable. I DON’T CARE.

I DON’T CARE! I DON’T CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK FROM ME. I don’t care what other people do. I don’t what other people have.”


You don’t care? Are you sure? There are so much people who are claiming that they don’t give a shit about anything what others think about them. I don’t think so. Because if this would be true, there would be people dressing themselves with garbage bags. But there is nobody and if there is somebody he would probably call himself an artist. People would shave their heads bald because it’s more practical and cheaper as well. It won’t be necessary to buy new clothes because the new season have got started. I mean it doesn’t bother you that you’re wearing every summer the same dresses and swimsuits, right? I could list hundreds of other examples from new cars to moving out of your parents place as fast as possible and so on…

The interesting point is, that most of the time the same people who want to persuade me that they really don’t care what people think from them, are often the same people who are having the newest car they can’t afford, the most expensive mobile phones and a need to stay up to date with the newest fashion… Although the even more interesting thing is, that they are not willing to give up this expensive lifestyle for a certain time so they can do what they really want to do in life, because they worry about someones else opinion. They are not willing to make one step back so they can get three steps forward.

Be honest

To be honest, everyone wants to impress someone once in a while. It can be your boyfriend with a new dress you’re wearing for a date or the new business suit you’re wearing for an interview. There is always a purpose why we want to impress somebody. And that is ok.

Nevertheless mostly we want to impress the wrong people with the wrong reasons. People who don’t care about us, people who only contact you when they need something from you. Why do we care about someones opinion who don’t even pays you a drink to see how you are? The point is, we always want what we can’t have and don’t bother what we could have… That’s just greedy.

Stop with that behaviour and you will see, magic will happen. If we start to notice people who are good to us, ignore the bad ones and finally take care to ourselves. Life could be so much easier by this way, of course the change in the beginning would be difficult but that’s how it works. Changes are never easy, but most of the time worth it. In the end we’re living our own lives and not the others. Live an independent life. Never forget, in the end we will only regret the chances we didn’t take.

Thanks for reading ! What’s your opinion to it? If you liked it or want that somebody else should read this, please share it, it would mean a lot to me! In case you don’t agree, please leave a comment, it would be interesting to hear your opinion.

By the way, I’ll be back on track with my backpack next week. If you’re interested in my daily posts about things I discover in south east asia, follow Let’s travel on medium, Jaysontherun on Facebook or Jaysontherun on Instagram! It will be a honor to feed you with tips and tricks I will learn during my journey.

Anyway, thank you very much !


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